"Do… a lot of people have their memory changed when they get their powers?"
Elan's pretty sure he didn't get his memory messed with, except for how he sure did choose a bunch of drawbacks that told them they would, or at least could, change his memories. So his memory did probably get messed with at least a little. His life still feels real to him: his mom, his time at Bard Camp, all of the other places and people and things he saw even before he got home to find a notebook on his bed.
Maybe he should have asked it to come along with him. He hadn't wanted to rely on asking it for advice, but it would be handy to show it to people.
But Grue says he doesn't wanna argue, so Elan should probably try to think of things that he can do if he's right or if he's wrong.
"Like, is there a place for people to go so they can get their head on straight? If I have a home and family here that I forgot about, I have no clue who or where they are. I guess I could try finding a police person and asking for help, but you just said it's dangerous to share my real name!"