It's not much later, in Isabella's room, that she asks:
"So... is Alex really a dom?"
Sadde and Isabella in Eclipse
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"Okay... And at the risk of sounding like a broken record, why don't you ask him not to use it the next time you two are together, before he uses it?"
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"Dates, conversation, cuddling, sleeping together, watching a movie, having dinner..."
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"I mean, when you're setting the movie up, or between bites like we're doing right now, or before you go to bed, or after you wake up."
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"Well, couldn't you? Next time you're having a not-sex time together, you could ask him not to use the whatever-it-was."
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"'The thing you used last time' should be enough, unless he used lots of things, in which case you can try to describe it, or point at it when he tries to use it?"