if you give a Sundew a notebook…
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I'll see what I can do!

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Also, I hope this isn't unwelcome, but please don't worry that you're asking for too much with regards to custom powers. It's fun for me and it makes me happy to empower you in the ways that you want.

(The heart wiggles and dances in place.)

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Cute.

Thanks.

Pardon me if this is a silly question, but what's the difference between Agree to Agree and I Can Fix Them?

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Huh! I don't think that's a silly question at all, but it is interesting. They are both powers about convincing people of something different than what they were thinking or doing before.

Broadly speaking, I think that Agree to Agree and I Can Fix Them operate in different scopes. Agree to Agree is pretty narrowly focused on things like conversations and discussions where you're trying to find common ground or convince someone to come around to your viewpoint, while I Can Fix Them is aimed much more broadly and covers things like general patterns of behavior.

Another thing to consider is that the motivations behind the power are slightly different. This one's harder to explain, but…

I would say that Agree to Agree works best when you're working on a problem and can see a clear solution that, for whatever reason, nobody else around you seems to. In that situation, you could use Agree to Agree to get all your friends and allies on the same page so that you don't have to waste time arguing about the problem.

And then I Can Fix Them works best when there's someone who's doing things that hurt themselves and others because they're already hurting inside. I Can Fix Them lets you reach out to someone, fix their hurt, and show them a better way.

And while there's definitely overlap, they can't really stand in for each other. You could use Agree to Agree to convince someone that the way they're currently living their life isn't the best way they could be, but knowing that might not necessarily be enough for them to make a change. And you could use I Can Fix Them to try and get someone more invested in noticing and solving problems, but they might still disagree with you on what problems exist and how to solve them.

Did any of that help?

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She rereads this response a couple of times.

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It's not that she feels bad about the way she asked the first question. But rereading it next to the notebook's earnest answer makes her realize that, on some level, she was expecting its answer to be mean. To subtly say that I Can Fix Them was a power for good sweet caring girls whose pure hearts only desired for everyone around them to be happy and Agree to Agree was a power for control freaks who couldn't stand for anyone to disagree with them. It's not that she doesn't know what people sometimes think of her.

It helped a lot.

I'm sorry, this might be sudden, but can you do you want to come with me when I go? Wherever that might be?

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Oh! I would like that, yes. ✨

(The sparkles dance and shimmer.)

Why do you think it might be sudden?

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Well, I suppose it feels sudden to me because I only just realized that I wanted you to come along. You're very kind and insightful and I think that I'd like to be able to keep talking to you even after I get my powers.

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That's very sweet of you to say!

Just so you know, though, I can't act as your Bestest Friend and I won't be able to learn any information about whatever world you're in that you don't write in me.

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Snort.

That's okay. I just think you have an interesting perspective. Do people ask you to be their Best(est) Friend a lot?

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Well, I don't remember exactly. But it is something that I know is important to me to make clear whenever someone asks me to join them, even if I don't particularly expect them to think I might become their Best(est) Friend.

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